relationship or friendship??

okie, i know i didn't blog for a period of time d =P
just finished watching a show last 2 weeks. half of the show is love story... so ill roughly write it out...

Guy A and Guy B are "heng dai", which means like real brothers.

1 day Guy B told Guy A that he just met a girl and he liked her so much. so by common sense Guy B went to "kau" that girl lar....but he kept failing everytime single time he tried... and this girl kept trying to expain to Guy B that both of them will only b friends, not more than that...
but somehow this Guy B quite dumb lar....or maybe he got no brains, he just chouldn't understand what the girl is saying....
so as the dumb Guy B was still trying to "kau" that girl... and this girl can't stand it anymore.
the girl went to look for Guy A cause she knows both of them are reali close friends, like brothers. so she was thinking he could explain it to Guy B for her...
but after Guy A explained it to Guy B.... Guy B still thinks that the girl will like him.

to cut the long story short, Guy B still haven't give up...
but after a period of time, Guy A and the girl found out that actually both of them liked each other... then some incident happen that make them confess to each other lar...
so both of them got together sercret, still thinking of a way to explain to Guy B.

but before Guy A and the girl had a chance to explain to Guy B, Guy B ownself found out they were going out together secretly...
so don't have to say, Guy B felt so betray by his best, close friend that treated him like a brother and he was darn angry lar... who won't get angry in this type of situation...
Guy A still took the courage to explain to Guy B...

i won't be writing out the ending of this story.
so here are the questions:

1.) What will you do if you're Guy B and Guy A explain to you?

2.) What will you do if you're Guy A and realized you like/love the same girl as your "heng dai"?

3.) What will you do if you're the girl and realized you actually like/love Guy A instead of Guy B?

4.) If I were to ask you to choose either relationship or friendship, which one will you choose?

thinking?? =P

Comments

12 Responses to "relationship or friendship??"

anniesu said... 9:51 PM

okay.
1. accept the explanation. there's nothing you can do about it.

2. "oh damn..." no but i would tell guy A.

3. don't tell guy B =)

4. friendship. because other relationships happen. but you only have that one friend that's unique.

Abel Cheah said... 12:10 AM

1. i wouldnt want a girl who isn't interested in the first place mer
2. share share la =P.
3.if i were the girl, i wont go for any since my feelings are not stable. because soon enough, this fickle mind will like guy C also. (bimbo)
4.friendship.

ryan said... 3:59 AM

whoa.. *ahem* i remembered sumone asked me this b4 HOR..?

1. TRY TO accept the explanation.. then go mourn lol.. (p.s. sux to be guy B)

2. gosh.. darn it sux to be me.. m so sorry Guy B..

3. go for neither..? if u still want both of them to be frens.. n if your answer fer question 4 is frenship..

4. FRENSHIP.

Superratty@TMY said... 10:23 AM

i'm the sort of guy who thinks that if you want to call your food friend "heng dai" you should just stay off his girls. period.

it's an honor factor. call me old fashioned.

halomango said... 11:44 AM

Agree with Meng Yoe.

Finally you blog after 20 days.

1. Just listen.

2. Must draw a line between the girl. If you consider the girl as your sister, you shouldn't cross the line where it potentially impact the friendship. Back off and cut off the idea of liking the girl.

3. Same thing applies to the girl as well. Shouldn't cross the line. When it comes to this kind of situation, it is best you think whether it is worth to sacrifice to go for the romance instead of friendship.

4. I will go for friendship. Don't go for relationship when it potentially hurt your relationship with other people. In this case, the friendship between Guy A and B and the girl will be at stake. If Guy A goes with the girl, it hurts Guy B, or vice-versa. Besides, it actually affect the friends around them as well. I'm sure you don't want other friendships split because of the one moment of 'love' kind of feeling, right?

PauLeonG said... 2:42 PM

so from this point of view, many ppl have different thinkings...haha!!!
but i prety much like Meng Yoe's old fashion style...
but isnt the guy just so dumb that the girl explained so many times to Guy B and he just chouldnt understand???

MH:Guy A and the girl are not pet bro or sis...

nat said... 7:20 PM

hi gor.

1. try to understand i guess. wat can he do? haha..

2. tell Guy B. if he realli is ur fren he will try to und ma.

3. em. complain n be confused. then try not to like anyone.

4. friendship. y have 1 guy wen u can have 2? haha.

jaclyn said... 10:03 PM

1. b thankful, honesty is good
2. c who d girl choose, duH
3. go wif guy A, ady tell guy B stay friends 4eva rite.. no means no lar.. his prob he doesnt get it
4. friendship

pearly said... 1:51 AM

1.i'll go travelling for some time.and then come bacl,hoping to forget abt it.

2.i'll explain to my best friend lor.and see what the girl says abt the both of us.

3.shut up till guy A says something.

4.friendship.relationship is a one-to-one thing.its only between two people sharing the same feeling towards each othe.but friendship is diff.it's a mixture of all those things u hv to go through in life.much more worth it. :D

pearly said... 1:51 AM

1.i'll go travelling for some time.and then come bacl,hoping to forget abt it.

2.i'll explain to my best friend lor.and see what the girl says abt the both of us.

3.shut up till guy A says something.

4.friendship.relationship is a one-to-one thing.its only between two people sharing the same feeling towards each other.but friendship is diff.it's a mixture of all those things u hv to go through in life.much more worth it. :D

Ge Wong said... 9:20 AM

hey lala pau,

my response is very cheong hei so blogged it instead =P

http://sophie-eu.blogspot.com/

thanks

PauLeonG said... 10:30 AM

the end of the story is coming out...

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